It's ok though.
If it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. What's funny though - I was a ROCK when we left there. Josh, my sweet, loving, funny yet sensitive when need be husband, was distraught. I know that he will not mind me saying this. He has feelings too - we don't always think about how much this affects the men in our lives. They hurt too! But I was strong - I tried to make him laugh (which is what I do in times like this). I told him that it was ok - doctor's don't know everything. We could very well get pregnant "on our own".
We are going to be ok!
I totally understand why there are so many couples out there who do NOT talk about their struggles with infertility. I didn't want to come back to work and have to answer all their questions with "we couldn't do it this time". I wanted to come back and say "be nice, I may be with child!" That's tough. But I feel strong, and I feel that sharing this with you guys, and the world, that maybe I can help someone else going through similar events. Maybe someone will read this and know that they are in no way, shape or form alone.
It's all going to work out - we just have to be patient and trust in the Lord! That's all we can do - that's all we need to do.
Thank you guys for your sweet words and prayers! I love you all!!!
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I'm sorry. Thinking about you guys and praying everything works out.
I am really sorry to hear this! It brought tears to my eyes, as I felt your disappointment and hate others have to go through it! It's so nice to have have a partner who wants it just as much as you do! Many couples cannot endure what you are going through and you and your husband are among the lucky ones! I know my husband had to literally pick me up off of the couch one time and make me go out to eat to get our minds off of the disappointment. We were laughing after awhile and then everything seemed better. You two need to treat yourselves tonight! Plus, don't let that medicine go to waste! Try anyway, you never know! I hope I don't sound too weird, just wanted to share my story and let you know you're not the only one! I didn't tell people what I went through and honestly never really talk about it, eventhough I am expecting and through it! Good luck!
I am sorry friend! I will keep praying for you and your husband on this journey. You are right, God's timing is perfect.
Amanda, I'm so sorry. My heart truly breaks for ya'll. I've been there and I know and understand what you are going through. I know it will happen one day. You have such a great attitude. Just keep praying and if it is God's will, it will happen. We love you and are continuing to pray for you.
I am so sorry. I completely understand. I have been thru this myself. Hang in there and don't get discouraged. take a vacation from it ( I know it sounds crazy ) but it works. focus on something for a month or so and then start trying again. well don't stop trying just put your focus on something different. I was married for 15 years before my son was born he is six and i am 43. you are young and have plenty of time. I prayed every night for two years for a baby and he finally came. He tells me that he lived in heaven before he was sent to live with me. you and Josh will make great parents and it will happen soon.
all things in time....its hard to understand sometimes, but trust in God we must..
my favorite saying is if you want to hear God laugh, tell him your plans
all the best
Dennis
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